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He is a Dirty John.
He targets, enjoys, then destroys wealthy women- nurses, caregivers, animal activists, healers... He is a Dirty John. It is overdue, he must be locked up!

ShelliFish
May 12


The Courts need to award a perpetrator's fines to their victim.
Currently, the fines are kept by the government. The $1,000 or $10,000 can then be used to rehabilitate the sufferer who requires justice.

ShelliFish
May 11


Law without justice is plaguing our society... particularly with domestic coercive controlling abusers who grow more bold over time.
... particularly with domestic coercive controlling abusers who grow more bold over time.

ShelliFish
May 8


If he gives you a public nickname...
... and gives his closest friends nicknames, he's collecting sources of supply. You are a possession.

ShelliFish
May 3


Incoming/outgoing calls and texts are navigated easily for the Cluster B.
The new target is assigned either the perpetrator's boss' or best friend's name in their phone contacts.

ShelliFish
Apr 24


It was so painful I cried, isolated and alone, for over 5 years. They knew I was in elimination. I was victim #4.
No one expected me to find a solution and become an advocate. No one knew he was a serial killer.

ShelliFish
Apr 14


Narcissists target loving and generous contributors to humanity.
They neutralize their victim’s intuition by weaponizing love and empathy. They do this by mirroring their prey, devoid them of their resources, and then attempt to permanently silence and discredit them.

ShelliFish
Apr 8


How to Eradicate Domestic Violence / Spousal Abuse - Focus on the Abuser:
How to eradicate domestic violence / spousal abuse FOCUS ON THE ABUSER 1. A victim is only safe if the abuser is separated from the general population. Evil exists. 2. Society is only safe when violent predators are incarcerated.
THEY REPEAT UNTIL THEY DIE.
NO CONSEQUENCES = ESCALATION. 3. Healing occurs only when justice is served. 4. If proof of pattern and more than 2 other victims experienced the same abuse, a brain scan should be required. Psychopathy is visib

ShelliFish
Apr 2


My abuser continually planted cactus in my succulent garden.
Life imitates art.

ShelliFish
Mar 26


"In order to escape accountability for his crimes, the perpetrator...
• Promotes forgetting • Attacks the credibility of his victim • If he cannot silence her absolutely, he tries to make sure no one listens." -Jon Krakauer From domestic abuse to political terror.

ShelliFish
Mar 24


Professionals in the field of psychology cannot spot these master manipulators. I don't support any statement that victim blames, there's no shame.
It's overdue, correcting this errored narrative. This is why victims are remaining forever haunted by the experience. Therapists and society continue to victim-blame and justice is seldom served. My justice will be served on a silver platter with a ticket to Redemption if they admit what they did. Don't worry, I will beautifully garnish the plate. I have a $500,000 endowment in my Trust to fund an investigation, if anything happens to me. Advocacy.

ShelliFish
Mar 20


If he says his ex is crazy... RUN!
Healthy people don't leave destruction in their wake.

ShelliFish
Mar 5






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